5 General Assumptions You Should Never Make About Every Woman

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They say women are the same all over the world. They say women love money and reason alike. When a woman does something wrong, the whole womenfolk suffer the abuse later. They tag it ‘the way of women’.

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However, women are different in their making and reasoning. No two women are the same. Fine, most women want their basic needs met, they want to get married and be successful but this doesn’t apply to all women.

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Here are 5 assumptions you should stop making about every woman who comes your way

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1.Because she looks good and dresses well, she is the typical gold digger

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No, she isn’t interested in milking you dry. Its not every woman that loves to depend on men for their daily needs. Some work hard to make their money and spend it on themselves.
Just because she drives a fine car, stop seeing her as a runs girl. Just because she lives in her own apartment, stop seeing her as a call girl. Your relationship with a tiny number of the womenfolk doesn’t give you the right to shamefully tag every other female in a condescending manner. Not every female is interested in your money.

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2. Because she laughs at your jokes, you assume she’s hitting on you

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Sometimes, those jokes are even dry. But she laughs all the same so as not to make you feel uncomfortable. It is not every woman who laughs at your joke, give you a friendly pat or lean on your shoulder that’s interested in you. Don’t take it to mean she’s stylishly hitting on you. She might not. Don’t mistake her friendliness for flirtation. While this might be some flirting code for some ladies, it isn’t a general one.

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3. Because she has a good job, she’s probably proud.
It is not every woman that has a good job that is proud. Some are so down to earth. So, because she takes care of her own bills and has conveniences suited to her needs doesn’t make her an arrogant person.

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4. Because she dines at fanciful restaurants, she won’t be a good cook.

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You think because she loves to order her food sometimes, she’s either a lazy cook or doesn’t even know how to cook at all. Then, you conclude she can’t be a wife material. Maybe she just doesn’t like to cook only for herself. Maybe she’s too busy to care. That doesn’t mean she won’t take care of the people in her life or cook for them when the need arises.

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5. Because she invites you to her apartment, she wants you to be intimate with her

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Some men see this as an open invitation to sexual intimacy. And when the woman resists, they are like ‘why did you invite me in the first place if not that you wanted this?’

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She just wanted to have a friend she could talk to. It’s not every time a lady invites you to her apartment because she wants intimacy. She just needed to talk, in a familiar environment(being her apartment) and feel the warmth of friendship.

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Some men have lost potential great women because these men took advantage of the women in situations such as this. Then, the society still puts the blame on the woman after the humiliation and they say ‘why did you invite him in the first place?’

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An invitation to a woman’s house isn’t an open invitation for anything sinister or intimate. At least, it doesn’t apply to every female out there. Get that clear.

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They say, assumption is the lowest level of intelligence. Never assume about anything or anyone in life. You can never predict accurately. It is not all women that love cakes, desserts or sweet things. Some don’t. So, stop generalising. Find out facts before you run into conclusion.

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